Weddings

October 14, 2020

How to Plan Your Wedding During COVID-19

No one, absolutely no one knew how devastating Covid would be. Now it seems like our whole world is working around Covid-19, especially in the wedding industry. I’m all about making your planning less stressful for my brides. So here are my tips for planning a Covid-19 wedding.

 


 
 

 

CHANGE YOUR MINDSET AND CREATE NEW EXPECTATIONS

At some point in time, big weddings with huge guest lists became some sort of a sign for ‘status’. That status means nothing to Covid because it literally touches everyone from rich to poor. So change your mindset and create a new range of expectations for your day.

Who is telling you that your wedding now has to be in a backyard, can’t be formal or black tie, that it is now an ‘elopement’ because it is under 100 guests?

You can still have a beautiful, elegant, wedding day with gorgeous flowers and rentals, and a photo booth, you just may need to lower your guest list to achieve those things. Bonus: by lowering your guest list, you’ll save money! Since when is saving money a negative thing?

 


 
 

 

MAKE A NEW GUEST LIST

This is crucial. My best advice to all current planning couples is to make a guest list that is no more than 50-75 people (including them).

Why? Because that is typically the core group that would include their wedding party, their spouses, parents, close family members. The people you are probably already quarantining with. This is an achievable number that everyone can agree to because the fact of the matter is, if you want to get married on the date you have chosen, you have to make some sacrifices.

 


 
 

 

NO ONE WILL QUESTION WHY THEY WERE NOT INVITED

This is quite literally your get out of jail free card.

You know those coworkers you feel like you ‘have’ to invite? NOPE. Your parents’ friends who you only see every summer? NOPE. Your future husband’s weirdo college buddies that he talks about nonstop but you haven’t actually met? NOPE.

STOP putting so much pressure on yourself to match these unrealistic ideals of what weddings ‘were’ and START setting yourself up for success and create what realistic ideas your wedding will be.

 


 
 

 

CONTACT YOUR VENUE

This may seem like a no-brainer but the truth is, couples have been sitting on the idea of postponing their weddings until it is too late OR have been avoiding the conversation of ‘what will my wedding look like because we want to move forward?’.

Having this conversation doesn’t mean you are giving in, it means you are preparing yourself for any possible outcome. You will become so much strong mentally and emotionally once you start allowing yourself to have these conversations.

Contacting your venue needs to be your highest priority because they are like the bus driver. They open the door to let you on and open it to let you off. Click here to find out what questions you should be asking your venue in this instance.

 


 

 


 

REACH OUT TO GUESTS AND MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE PRECAUTIONS YOU WILL BE EXERCISING

The easiest way to do that is to include a ‘Covid Card’ in your invitation suite. It can explain what steps and precautions the venue has implemented, how you and your future spouse are feeling, and of course encouragement.

If you are working with a custom stationery designer, lucky you! They will be your biggest ally. With your smaller guest list, request fewer invitation suites. If you have already paid a deposit and the new expectations mean you will be spending less than anticipated, ask them to utilize those funds in a couple of different ways.

 


 
 

 

SPEAK TO YOUR VENDORS

There is a “chain of command” when contacting your vendors and I encourage you to move from your highest investment first. Think about it this way: talk to those you *must have* for your wedding day to be a success first.

PS: Please understand that many of your wedding vendors are small business owners and will not have the ability to return any non-refundable retainers that you agreed to upon signing their contract.